The most asked subject, and the most often asked wrongly
Love and reconciliation
Love questions are hard because the answer is usually decided before the shuffle. When you ask “will they come back?”, only one answer will do — and then no card satisfies. Move from guessing someone else's feelings to deciding your own next move and the reading suddenly becomes usable.
Ask it like this
- What am I failing to see in this relationship right now?
- Before I reach out again, what do I need to settle in myself?
- Who do I become when I'm with this person?
- Between waiting and moving, which one fits me right now?
Questions to avoid
- Do they still have feelings for me?
- Why It asks a card to certify another person's private state. It cannot, and no answer will actually settle you.
- When will we meet again?
- Why Date-guessing is neither checkable nor useful. “If we do meet again, what should be different about me by then?” gives you something to do.
One more thing
Reconciliation questions read better across three cards. One is too short an answer, and a relationship always includes the time already spent.
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Tarot does not fix the future. These pages are a reference for reflecting on where you are right now.